Eight Ways to Avoid Holiday Arguments and Keep the Peace Every holiday, all over social media, I see snarky posts about the yearly tradition of holiday arguments. Maybe it is no surprise then that right after New Year’s Day, couples therapist offices like mine are flooded with new clients seeking help for issues that came…
Frequently, clients ask for help with their anger. I specialize in relationship and sexual issues, so the context of this request frequently includes anger in a relationship. For that reason, I’ve decided to share a couple of my thoughts about different types of anger in relationships. Before I go into this discussion, I want to…
From “one true love” to “happily ever after,” we are inundated with images and storylines about love that don’t quite fit our experiences. Those stories can sometimes create expectations which cause us to be confused or dissatisfied with the reality of our relationship,s even when the reality is positive. Self-help books, family advice, and people…
5 Argument Ending Sentences Many of the negative emotional and communication cycles that I see when couples come to me can be summed up very simply. Two people who come into a close relationship start hurting each other in unconscious ways and can’t stop. The efforts they take to stop the pain unwittingly perpetuate the…