No therapist is the right person for everyone. This page lists referrals to therapists and nontherapist resources that I trust and would recommend to my own clients.
Wary of therapy? You’re not alone. If you’d like to read more about therapy, effectiveness, and other information, click here for more information from the American Psychological Association.
I’m not the right therapist for everyone. If you’ve reviewed my site and you think we’re probably not a good fit, you’re probably right. I hope the following referrals help you find the right fit.
Referrals if Dr. Eric has the Wrong Specialties for You
Bay Area Psychological Association–A good link if my specialties are not what you’re looking for or if you want in-person therapy in the South Bay Area.
California Psychological Association–If you are open to teletherapy but need someone with different specialties than mine -OR- you are wanting in-person therapy in California but you are in an area that isn’t served by the Bay Area Psychological Association.
American Psychological Association Therapist Locator–If you are looking for a therapist in a state other than California you can start with this link. If you don’t need a Ph.D. or Psy.D., you could also try the next link.
Psychology Today–For finding any kind of therapist anywhere in the world.
Wisemind Institute provides Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for helping clients manage their emotions and relationships.
Eric Has the Right Specialties, but I’d Like Referrals to Someone Else
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists–For therapists specializing in sexual issues (worldwide).
Gaylesta-A directory of therapists primarily in the San Francisco Bay Area, but expanding, who serve LGBTQ+ needs.
Bay Area Open Minds-Kink-aware and poly-friendly therapists
Poly Friendly Professionals-Includes poly-friendly therapists in the US and abroad.
Rouse Relational Wellness; A group practice in San Francisco founded by David Khalili, author of Mental Health Workbook for Men.
The National Registry of Marriage-Friendly Therapists-Therapists specializing in therapy for relationship issues.
I’d Like Referrals to a Therapist With My Own Cultural Identity
Ling Lam – A respected (and funny) therapist I’ve shared referrals with for years.
Perry Clark: Black therapist and host of the podcast Untying Knots: Hearts and Minds Untethered.
Referrals to a Coach
Kathy Caprino: Author, podcasting host of Finding Brave, and blogger for Forbes, Kathy specializes in helping women get the most out of business.
Mike Domitrz: Author of “Can I Kiss You?”, Hall of Fame Speaker, Founder of the Center for Respect, trainer, and business coach.
Dan Faill: Speaker, consultant, and coach (personal, professional, and speaking).
Ed Frauenheim: Coauthor of Reinventing Masculinity, consultant, and Reinventing Masculinity @ Work coach.
Michael Tertes – He helps clients uncover their Leadership Essence.
Jim Young: Author of Expansive Intimacy, host of the podcast of the same name, and men’s coach.
I Need Help to Chill Out
Jordan Friedman: The Stress Coach offers speaking, training, online courses, and an app for that.
If you call and talk with me but find that you wouldn’t like to pursue therapy with me, I’d also be happy to offer you direct referrals to colleagues that I know personally who may be able to meet your needs.

