Frequently, clients ask for help with their anger. I specialize in relationship and sexual issues, so the context of this request frequently includes anger in a relationship. For that reason, I’ve decided to share a couple of my thoughts about different types of anger in relationships. Before I go into this discussion, I want to…
Each member of the couple is 100% responsible for the relationship problems. I’ll explain, but first, a caveat. The applicability of this assumption is contingent upon a certain minimum level of relationship functioning. In situations of domestic violence, substance abuse, or other safety risks, this assumption has no place. In those cases, safety, ending the…
Most of my clients are monogamous, and I happily support them in protecting and affirming the viability of their monogamy. I have also provided polyamory therapy, and this post is intended to affirm and support those clients. In a recent web series on CNN Money called “Sex, Drugs, and Silicon Valley”, some nonconforming practices with…